Dating an Aries woman

Dating an Aries Woman: Are You Man Enough for Her?

Isabella is a freelance writer with over 13 years of experience writing about astrology and other mystical topics.

What does a female Aries want in a relationship? This tongue-in-cheek article will help you find out!

What Does an Aries Woman Want?

So you've encountered a sexy Aries woman, and you want to know the inside tricks to make her fall in love with you, eh? Well, this tongue-in-cheek article might be just the thing you're looking for, cos, as an Aries woman, I'm going to give you an earful. Which is something you really ought to prepare for in advance, regardless, as it's one of the Aries woman's favorite pastimes. Honestly, if it were an Olympic sport, we'd win gold every time, and we'd enjoy every minute of it.

But let me not give you the impression we're overly aggressive—that's only 95% of our disposition. Let me tell you 'bout the other 5%.

Aries Woman Thinks Like a Man.

Ok, maybe we don't think exactly like a man does, but of all the astrological signs a woman can have, we come the closest. We even act more like a man than other women in the sense that we've been known to love and leave men without thinking twice. Not that we do that when we're in love or anything; it's just that, like men, we don't see the point in making pretense out of a one-night stand when we know it will never amount to anything more than a one-night stand.

Not that we can't be sensitive, mind you. Make us feel fat or ugly and you'll be drowning in our waterworks, cos we can be real babies like that.

Tongue in Cheek.

Remember, this is a humorous look at Aries women. It contains a generous dose of sarcasm!

Don’t Date An Aries Woman Unless You Can Do These 18 Things.

1. Accept her boldness.

Be it the way she talks or just her self-confidence, Aries are known for being the most courageous sign in the zodiac. They will emit their bravery throughout all areas of life, including relationships. She’ll do anything to make you two work, including agreeing to reasonable compromises. It doesn’t matter how dark or bumpy the road is, she’ll brave a storm to reach you. This also goes for how she views herself in society. She doesn’t go with the flow. If someone tries to put her in a box, she will break out of it and show that she’s nothing like what you pinned her down as. She has her own identity, her own story, and she is shameless of it. Don’t try to make her fit your idea of perfection. Accept her for who she is, sit back and enjoy the unapologetic magic.

2. Accept her honesty and bluntness.

Because she will say whatever is on her mind. She can be inconsiderate of others’ feelings sometimes, but always apologizes if she knows she’s offended someone. It’s rare for her to meet someone who can handle her opinionated self and not take it personally. Patiently call her out on her unintended rudeness.

3. Let go of her past and look beyond her imperfections.

Because she already has. When it comes to anything negative that happens in her life, she processes them quickly and efficiently, and then lets them go. She doesn’t hold onto guilt from the bad choices she’s made, and she doesn’t think about them all the time. She recognizes that every human has faults and flaws — including you — but she won’t focus on the bad. She thrives on loving the good in herself and in others.

4. Be adventurous with her.

Not only is she down for adventures, but she’s down for spontaneous, impulsive adventures. She’ll either look for them, they’ll find her, or she’ll make random outings into adventures. She’s all about creating memories. She’s the one with the crazy ideas, the unintentional life of the party, the discoverer of the unknown. Be willing to experience life with her, or at least give her the space she needs to experience it. You can encourage her passion from a distance, but don’t ever try to hold her back from living her daily life to the fullest. The Aries hates being bored — or better yet, the word “bored” doesn’t exist in her vocabulary. She is always wanting to change and grow and mature. And it’s all an adventure to her.

5. Accept her independence.

She doesn’t need you; she’s accepting you as part of her life. She’s independent. If you can’t respect that, then you won’t last long. You may not hear from her for a couple hours, but it doesn’t mean she doesn’t want to talk to you. You may not always see her at any and every chance you want, but that doesn’t mean she isn’t interested in you. Don’t be afraid to be honest with her and let her know that you need some time in her presence. She appreciates when you’re direct with your needs and want to be near her. And she will always make time for you. Aries know who and how to prioritize.

6. Handle lots of questions.

She wants to get to know you, what you like, why you like it, what you want to do, why you want to do it, etc.

7. Accept her big heart.

Not only do Aries love to love, but they are also incredible forgivers. She doesn’t hold things against you. She is good at making amends. She doesn’t let things fester. She wants to talk about it and fix whatever the issue is right away. She gives you plenty of chances (sometimes too many — don’t take advantage of this!). She may not always bounce right back into being touchy-feely after you’ve said something hurtful, but she processes quickly and won’t let her anger last long. She already let you into her mind and heart, and that’s where you’ll always stay.

She notices and loves the little and imperfect things in life. She cares for what others may find unappealing. She’ll be fascinated by small wonders and make you stop to enjoy them with her.

8. Be pretty cheesy (or at least love when she is)

She’s all about creating and capturing memories, so say hello to taking cute couple photos, holding hands, lots of PDA, random kisses, thigh squeezes, and smiles from across the room. She’s proud to be with you and she won’t care if people know it and see it through her actions.

9. Be very patient.

Because she isn’t. #balance.

10. Appreciate her deep thinking.

Aries are far from shallow. She may always seem to live in the moment, but it doesn’t mean her brain is at rest while her body is living. She is always thinking, always analyzing, always wondering, always dreaming. She is not only a great conversationalist, but you may be surprised at her way with words. She brings a new perspective on life. Don’t be surprised if the way you start to see things changes after spending some time with her.

11. Handle sassiness.

Because Aries are the prime sassy-pants-wearer.

12. Brave the fire.

Because she is fiery. Not just because fire is her element, but because her personality is all flames and excitement. She is fearless. And she’ll always leave you feeling more, becoming more, and wanting more.

13. Be willing to give her attention.

She’s confident in her own skin, in her own thoughts, in who she is as a person, but don’t let that fool you. She needs your eyes on her and she needs your words of affirmation. She doesn’t want to be the center of everyone’s attention. She just needs to know that she’s the center of your attention.

14. Appreciate her protectiveness.

No, Aries are far from being the jealous type, but they are protective of both themselves and what they consider to be theirs. She looks after the people she cares about. She’s careful with people’s hearts and attempts to handle everything with care, whether that be words, songs, writings, or her lover’s hand.

15. Love the delicate and appreciate the tough.

Aries are hopeful romantics. She not only wants a one-of-a-kind love story, but she also knows that her vulnerability to find love can backfire and burn her. This doesn’t phase her, though, because what doesn’t kill makes her stronger. She can handle a lot — both physically and emotionally — and this will be something you will admire most about her. She’s the type of person who will carry others, even if she has her own issues going on in life. And even when she seems the most tough, there will be rare moments when her walls completely come down. You’ll see her vulnerable and she’ll call it weakness. You’ll see her break down and she’ll call it a flaw. But when you see this side of her that very few — if any — people get to see, you’ll realize that there isn’t anyone more beautiful.

16. Be prepared for commitment.

Yes, there’s the dating stage, but an Aries woman knows what she wants and if she looks for it and finds it in you, then she’ll want to have an intentional relationship from then on. If you get cold feet or make up stupid excuses (and yes, “We haven’t known each other for very long” counts), then you’ll lose her.

17. Be okay with passion.

Because she will pursue you, love you, kiss you, be angry with you, hug you, speak to you, write about you… all with an immense load of passion. To some, it can be stifling. To others, it can be just what they need to truly feel cared for. Figure out which type of person you are beforehand.

18. Be prepared to fall in love with her.

Because I promise it can happen easily, and when it does, you won’t regret it.

But be aware that if you let her go, you’ll never forget her.

Dating an Aries Woman: Are You Man Enough for Her?

Isabella is a freelance writer with over 13 years of experience writing about astrology and other mystical topics.

What does a female Aries want in a relationship? This tongue-in-cheek article will help you find out!

What Does an Aries Woman Want?

So you've encountered a sexy Aries woman, and you want to know the inside tricks to make her fall in love with you, eh? Well, this tongue-in-cheek article might be just the thing you're looking for, cos, as an Aries woman, I'm going to give you an earful. Which is something you really ought to prepare for in advance, regardless, as it's one of the Aries woman's favorite pastimes. Honestly, if it were an Olympic sport, we'd win gold every time, and we'd enjoy every minute of it.

But let me not give you the impression we're overly aggressive—that's only 95% of our disposition. Let me tell you 'bout the other 5%.

Aries Woman Thinks Like a Man.

Ok, maybe we don't think exactly like a man does, but of all the astrological signs a woman can have, we come the closest. We even act more like a man than other women in the sense that we've been known to love and leave men without thinking twice. Not that we do that when we're in love or anything; it's just that, like men, we don't see the point in making pretense out of a one-night stand when we know it will never amount to anything more than a one-night stand.

Not that we can't be sensitive, mind you. Make us feel fat or ugly and you'll be drowning in our waterworks, cos we can be real babies like that.

Tongue in Cheek.

Remember, this is a humorous look at Aries women. It contains a generous dose of sarcasm!

The Early Stages of Dating an Aries Man—and How to Make Progress.

In the early days of a relationship with an Aries man, it can be hard to know if you’re moving in the right direction. With Astrology behind you, though, you can get into the head of your Aries guy and make sure you’re setting yourself up for smooth sailing!

Are you dating an Aries man but it doesn’t feel like its really progressing? Maybe you’re feeling like you aren’t so sure he likes you as much as you like him. What can you do to find out with pushing him?

I want to help you! Aries men are hard to get but once you do, you’ve got to work harder to keep them. You may want to keep reading and learn more about the early stages of dating an Aries man and what you can do to make progress.

Starting With the First Date.

Going into something potentially serious with an Aries man requires a stellar first date. If you’re about to take that step, you’ve got to know what to do so that there will be a second date or more beyond.

The first thing to know is that the Aries man is an alpha male, and that means he wants to plan the date. Let him. Even if you’re used to making plans, give him the reins on this one.

While talking to him, listen to what he says and get to know what he likes and cares about. Try to get his attention by talking about adventures such as travel, sports, or something that you’ve done that he may enjoy.

He will admire you and be intrigued by your exciting experiences. It will make him want to ask more questions and get to know you, which will take a second date!

Once you do the second date, you’ll give him more juicy details about your life and things you’d love to try that you haven’t yet. Talk about places you’d like to travel as well.

Things like this get his blood pumping, and he’s going to see you as a potential partner in crime. Aries men can be a bit into themselves, so be sure to ask him questions, too. It makes him feel important.

Be sure you look your best to appeal to his sexual side. Have your hair fixed and looking neat. You don’t have to look like a supermodel, but do show that you care about your appearance.

Don’t be aggressive, but don’t be passive either. He doesn’t like women who are easily turned into doormats. He likes a strong woman that will stand her ground.

If all goes well, this will land you many more dates to come. Whatever you do, try not to dive into bed with him right away. This gives him the idea that you’re okay with being casual, so if you aren’t, then don’t do it.

How To Tell When An Aries Man Is Into You.

Now that you’ve started something with your Aries guy, you want to know if he actually likes you and sees some type of future with you. There are some signs you can look for.

He invites you out to do fun things, either with other friends or with just him. He acts like a teenager trying to show off for you to notice. He touches you subtly to get your attention Spontaneity is his thing. He may show up when you least expect him. He will compliment you and make you feel good. He will ask about meeting your friends or even family. He craves more info about your life and wants to spend as much time as he can with you. He starts putting you first in his routines. He tells you straight-up that he likes you.

These are some very obvious ways to know an Aries man is into you!

Now what can you do to make sure he stays into you? I’ve got some ideas for you!

How To Keep An Aries Man Interested.

You’ve gotten him out on dates and he seems to like you. Now what? What can you to do to ensure that he’s going to get closer to you—and maybe even decide you’re the one for him?

Keep things fresh and spontaneous. He doesn’t like too much routine as it becomes boring. Suggest new places or things you can do that will be lots of fun and caters to both your interests. Let him set the pace so that he doesn’t feel pressured to commit before he’s ready. Move quickly, but don’t rush! That doesn’t mean pressure him, but it does mean you should always try to spend time together. He can decide when he’s comfortable doing it, but at least he knows you’re into him. Be sneaky and plan a surprise activity you know he’ll love. Be patient and let him spend time out with his friends when he wants to, as long as he makes time for you, as well. Let him have his personal freedom. This means not boxing him in or making demands. Stay active with him. He’s going to love being physically active and fit, whether you’re doing it together or separately. Have your own life and friends, and spend time on your own without him. It will make him feel more secure in his own freedom and show him you stand on your own feet. Be open to trying new things, especially in the bedroom. He wants excitement always! Always be on his side. Having you as his cheerleader and number one fan is VERY important to Aries man.

Now you are armed with a game plan to keep your Aries man interested in you and excited about the possibilities of the future. Never pressure him, and never tell him what to do.

As long as you act like his partner and not like his mother or teacher, you’ll do well with him. Don’t let him get away with anything, though! You’ve got to stand your ground and set boundaries and expectations so he knows what is and isn’t ok.

Be open and honest with him. For the times when you don’t feel like keeping up with his busy life, it’s fine if you stay home—but let him go do whatever he had planned. He will appreciate your understanding.

Conclusion.

Aries men are hard to get. They’re sexy and motivated, and you’ve got to give him your best in order to stand out and make him feel you’re the right one for him.

You can totally do this if you follow the steps I’ve given you. Keep him excited and feeling like you’re a big adventure he can’t wait to explore.

He will see you as a prize, and as long as you’re showing him that you are, things will go very well between you two. Be supportive of his goals or ideas. Try not to bicker with him (he’s a sore loser).

He doesn’t like to own up to when he is wrong, but if you teach him how to do this by example, he will start to grow as a man and as your partner. Marriage will only come when he’s totally ready.

Don’t ever try to push him into marriage. He will either back away or he will resent you for trying to push him. Either way it won’t end very well. He will want to get away from you.

The Aries man in love is quite powerful and tends to make you feel safe. He has that quality of making you feel like a million bucks in his arms. When you have his love, you feel on top of the world.

You know that you’ve earned your way into his heart. Truly, he could have just about anyone he wanted, but he’s choosing you. Hang onto that by doing everything you can to keep his interest flowing.

He’s a strong man, and yes, he can be stubborn. But if you plant the seeds and build a strong foundation, you’ll end up with a keeper!

Did you know that hilarious actor Paul Rudd is an Aries man? If you ever watch any of his films, you see his allure!

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